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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They're her kids.

I'd fire every single one of you in a second.  [/quote][b]

Then I guess she should stay home and take care of her own kids. No nanny wants this job anyways![/quote]

Right, because it doesn't allow her to be lazy.  Understood.[/quote]

It has nothing to do with being lazy.

When a parent comes running into the room every time a child cries, the parent is teaching the child to scream when things aren't going the way they want.

When a parent won't allow the nanny five minutes to sit down and eat lunch while the child is sleeping, it breeds resentment.[/quote]

Oh, please.  We're talking about two different things.  If my nanny won't "allow" me to come in and say hello to my child, then they don't deserve to have a job.  Thankfully my nanny was amazing and we worked as a team until my child started preschool.

Daycares limit access to children as well, by the way, and I'm suspicious of anyone who doesn't allow me 100% access on my terms to my child.  What are you hiding?[/quote]
Perhaps the important concept of "predictability" is unknown to some of you.[/quote]

A mom coming in to say hello is "unpredictable" and therefore bad?  You're insane.  Thankfully my nanny understood the important on on-demand nursing and bonding.  I'd never hire someone who had such a lack of understanding of infant care.[/quote]

On-demand nursing is at the CHILD'S demand, not the parent's.  A parent coming in and out repeatedly through the day can destroy a good play session between baby and nanny, or it can disrupt a toddler/preschooler and cause them to act out.  Parents don't go in and out when they have a nanny, they do when they have a mother's helper who they don't trust.[/quote]

Exactly.  And when my 9 week old baby cried, she was wanting to nurse.  Maybe you should research on-demand nursing of newborns.[/quote]

PP someone already tried once, quite eloquently, to dismiss you as you are not on topic.  I'll try again, GO AWAY.

We aren't talking about nursing. Any competent nanny will have no problem with on demand nursing, what we are talking about is entirely different. Stop trying to push your agenda and go bond with your baby. [/quote]

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