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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They're her kids.

I'd fire every single one of you in a second.  [/quote][b]

Then I guess she should stay home and take care of her own kids. No nanny wants this job anyways![/quote]

Right, because it doesn't allow her to be lazy.  Understood.[/quote]

It has nothing to do with being lazy.

When a parent comes running into the room every time a child cries, the parent is teaching the child to scream when things aren't going the way they want.

When a parent won't allow the nanny five minutes to sit down and eat lunch while the child is sleeping, it breeds resentment.[/quote]

Oh, please.  We're talking about two different things.  If my nanny won't "allow" me to come in and say hello to my child, then they don't deserve to have a job.  Thankfully my nanny was amazing and we worked as a team until my child started preschool.

Daycares limit access to children as well, by the way, and I'm suspicious of anyone who doesn't allow me 100% access on my terms to my child.  What are you hiding?[/quote]
Perhaps the important concept of "predictability" is unknown to some of you.[/quote]

A mom coming in to say hello is "unpredictable" and therefore bad?  You're insane.  Thankfully my nanny understood the important on on-demand nursing and bonding.  I'd never hire someone who had such a lack of understanding of infant care.[/quote]

On-demand nursing is at the CHILD'S demand, not the parent's.  A parent coming in and out repeatedly through the day can destroy a good play session between baby and nanny, or it can disrupt a toddler/preschooler and cause them to act out.  Parents don't go in and out when they have a nanny, they do when they have a mother's helper who they don't trust.[/quote]

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