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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They're her kids.

I'd fire every single one of you in a second.  [/quote][b]

Then I guess she should stay home and take care of her own kids. No nanny wants this job anyways![/quote]

Right, because it doesn't allow her to be lazy.  Understood.[/quote]

It has nothing to do with being lazy.

When a parent comes running into the room every time a child cries, the parent is teaching the child to scream when things aren't going the way they want.

When a parent won't allow the nanny five minutes to sit down and eat lunch while the child is sleeping, it breeds resentment.[/quote]

Oh, please.  We're talking about two different things.  If my nanny won't "allow" me to come in and say hello to my child, then they don't deserve to have a job.  Thankfully my nanny was amazing and we worked as a team until my child started preschool.

Daycares limit access to children as well, by the way, and I'm suspicious of anyone who doesn't allow me 100% access on my terms to my child.  What are you hiding?[/quote]
Perhaps the important concept of "predictability" is unknown to some of you.[/quote]

A mom coming in to say hello is "unpredictable" and therefore bad?  You're insane.  Thankfully my nanny understood the important on on-demand nursing and bonding.  I'd never hire someone who had such a lack of understanding of infant care.[/quote]

I'm pretty sure day cares allow access to parents, but the understanding is you aren't going to be just popping in and definitely not in response to the kid getting upset.  Nursing is different and was not the subject of this chain.

I went to visit my daughter at school and pick her up early the other day.  It was nice but definitely an infrequent thing - you could see how it threw her totally off.  [/quote]

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