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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Because I expect a young person to be able to go out on dates and come home afterward?  Who am I to contradict popular view on this message board.  Will be sure to discuss with future candidates when we hire to ensure we have a common set of values and image of what it means to be a role model for our daughter.[/quote]

Yes, I am aware that this thread is 2 years old, but since someone else dredged this up, I'm going to address it.

If you want a morality clause, be prepared to either search for someone who shares your religious and ethical views or be prepared to pay the nanny more.  I've been hired under a morality clause once, although several other families have tried to insist on them.  My theory is that I am an adult, I provide a more moral role model for young children than many childcare providers do (nannies, babysitters, daycare workers, preschool teachers, etc), and if I need to be so careful about my social life as to not let any quetions be drawn, I am going to be paid well for that.  I've had families who tried to insist on 9 pm as a curfew.  Other families tried to tell me that my clothing wasn't appropriate (I wear long skirts and full coverage tops).  Another family wanted to insist that I not date anyone or have sex with anyone while employed by them, that way I wouldn't get pregnant.  I'm willing to be flexible on any of the above, but the family *will* pay for my inconvenience, discomfort and/or unhappiness.[/quote]

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