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[quote=Anonymous]Op said she sent her a message saying that she should have a speedy recovery and that she is going out of town. READ all the posts before you reply PP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OP is in the wrong!!!!!! No matter how you put it! Granted the extended cousin is living for free, she probably asked OP and the husband and they said fine. Op in this life you have to ask if you want something, not just expect it will fall on your lap. You shoul have just asked nicely and also added that it can be just for a couple of hours and say you would like for just this once to pay a little less than your regular $22 (maybe $15). Your problem is that you wanted her to do it for free. From what you tell us, it's not like you pay her even more than $300 a month, even if she is living with you she still has to take care of some of her personal expenses. If it is bothering you so much, just tell her that from x day you will start charging for rent (maybe 10 hours a week of babysitting) and no more than that, if it is more then you have to pay her her rate. Other than that, you do not consider her as a family member, you even showed it in your posts (on both forums), you started out by calling her live in nanny. You probably made your relationship like that because you were probably not happy she is living with you, but you are putting up with it because your husband asked. I hope you try to work o your relationship with this lady. Tell her how you felt and move on. Life is too short to dwell on small things. You just had a surgery, why spend so much time on the internet to discuss this nonsense? Go lay down on your living room couch with your kids playing near by so you can keep an eye on them. Or go sleep it something. [/quote]

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