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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, someone else answered the questions better. :) So I'm an MB. What I might want to hear from you is a question back to me: "Of course, there's no single answer. Different families do these things differently, each kid is different, things change, and so on. Before I answer, do you mind if I ask you what your approach is, or maybe you can tell me if there are any specific situations or concerns you're thinking about? Because I think it's important that we work together, especially since I work for you and you are the parents." And then if they press you, you might say, "Well, if I had no guidance to start with, I might do something like this: _____ *and feel free to ask me to elaborate. And then ______ * and feel free to ask me to elaborate. And another thing _____* again, that's just in general. Let me know if I've offered enough information. But again, maybe the best way is to come to an agreement about some general principles and then figuring out the details with the parents, especially once we get to know what the child's own needs are. One thing I can tell you is that I'm pretty good at keeping my cool when the going gets rough!"[/quote] I am the OP here again... I love your answers here. It conveys my attitude very well regarding viewing the relationship between a prospective employer and me being one of a collaborative partnership... thanks![/quote]
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