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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Judgmental witches on here. The ability to care for a child has nothing to do with one's personal sexual life. There are plenty of married parents who have affairs, open marriages, s&m lifestyles, go to strip clubs together, etc. Does that make them bad and unfit parents? Not at all. By the way, I always smh when dumb broads get on people like OP and say she causes marriages to break up....no she doesn't. If your spouse cheats or checks out adult sites, he is to blame and only him. No one forced him to get on those sites. Stop placing blame on others when it should be on your shithead spouse.[/quote]
I agree with you on almost every point, personal lives are just that, personal. I don't care what anyone does in their own home/bed and by no means do I think it affects their ability to provide quality care.  BUT, and it's a BIG BUT, we are not talking about OPs personal life here, this is her profession. She is paid on the books for it and it is available for ANYONE on the internet. When you cross into that territory, you relinquish the right to say  " it's my personal business and my employer has no place to judge me for it". No one goes into this line of work without realizing that it could affect their future professional prospects negatively. 
I was a teacher, am a nanny, and am going to be a higher level health care provider. I was approached by a reputable, feminist porn company to do a video. As much as it piqued my interest ( and the money would have been really nice for this broke grad student) I said no. I could try to bury that video all I wanted, could wear a wig, could cover my tattoos, etc, it would still be out there and SOMEONE important would find it. 
OP, you have made your bed, now you have to lie in it. [/quote]

Who cares if someone knows? I used to be a nanny for a mom who was a stripper. She was very professional, paid on time, etc. I never looked at her as 'that whore' - which by the way she is not or op as much as people want to shame them.[/quote]

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