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[quote=Anonymous]If your nanny is young and has no children of her own their is no way you should ask her to do this. Remember your first pregnancy and how attached you were to your baby from the start? Now imagine giving birth to this baby and then caring for it daily and leaving it every night. You also have no say in how this child really is raised. Plus even the jobs that end on the best of terms always have the possibility of losing contact over the years. I also can see a lot of arguments coming up during the pregnancy I could see you micromanaging every little thing she does and then when the baby comes butting heads do to how she feels the child should be raised since she carried it.

why don't you want to go with a person you have no connection or bond with? I think it has to do with your nanny being young and vulnerable and possibly desperate for money. So what your offering to her will sound great on paper but she probably won't know what to expect when she's pregnant and how attached she will become and if she doesn't research it how much money she should be compensated. I also get the feeling you're the type that would blame her and hold a grudge if she miscarried[/quote]

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