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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]22:39, just imagine two adults who stare at you all day. Lovely, isn't it? At some point you might wonder what's wrong with them. But maybe not.[/quote] It has not been my experience that having two adults in a room with a child means they are both just sitting there staring at the child doing nothing else all day ... I really can't imagine it actually. [/quote] BINGO! You finally got it. At least one of them is focused on something else. Whew![/quote] Actually, I am genuinely confused. You can have two adults sitting in a room engaging a child or playing a game together. That is not harmful nor is it two adults sitting there just staring at a child. More importantly, I'm not sure what that has to do with your initial point that having a parent and a nanny there at the same time is harmful? [/quote] Just do what you want. I was once hired to do babycare, so I thought. As it turned out, mb hung with me and baby ALL day, EVERY day. No joke. They had a full cleaning crew, so nothing for either one of us to do, but make small talk and stare at the newborn. Even though the pay was sky high, I still left. What professional would put up with that nonsense? At the time, I wasn't prepared to be her therapist.[/quote] It's absolutely fair that that may not have been the job for you but I was responding to the statement that it was harmful to the child. How on earth is it harmful?[/quote] It was a job for a "companion", don't you think?[/quote]
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