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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP Here.

I see in my absent we have a lot of assumptions in place.  Let me make this clear.

As I said in the OP, we were both in bad moods.  The differences is I didn't snap at my nanny.  She did, however, snap at her boss. I called my nanny in early to help me clean up after the children, and care for them.  That is her job, and she agreed beforehand.  I did NOT spend "less than normal" time with my sick children.  I took off for the day, but had to go to a meeting around 4.  I was with them all morning caring for them and cleaning up after them just like the nanny.  Yet I didn't snap at her, it's a difference of emotional mentalities.  It worried me knowing someone who will snap under a little stress is around my children. [b] I asked you a very simple question and the feedback had nothing to do with what I was asking about.[/b]

Thank you for the few who did reply accordingly.  [/quote]

Your question in the OP was "Thoughts?" That's exactly what you got, you just didn't like them. You asked a lot of your nanny on that particular day and instead of being gracious and appreciative, you showed up late with an attitude. She called you on your treatment of her, albeit in not the most tactful of ways, and yes you should let it go. Thank her for her help that day and LET IT GO. You said she already apologized and felt horrible. What more do you want? [/quote]

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