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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My AP went to Canada two weekends ago, NYC last month and is planning a trip to Boston asap. She is also talking about going on a cruise in the spring. She has NOT invited me on a single one of these trips! I am so sad that she just plans them without me, other than telling me that she'll be gone. After we, after all, members of the family? Shouldn't she take me along? [/quote] lol. Yeah, sorry 23:39. It's wonderful that this is the kind of relationship that you create with your au pairs and that you have the extra funds to have taken all four of your au pairs with you on every trip you take and just give them a free week off. Surely you understand that there might be very loving host families that take trips that either they can't afford to have their au pair join them, that wouldn't make sense for their au pair to join them, that would be horribly boring for the au pair, or any number of other reasons? I maintain that if, as an au pair, you come in thinking that if your host family doesn't invite you with them to every single activity they do for the entire year then that means they are a bad host family that you shouldn't waste a year on, you're going to very very disappointed in the program. [/quote]
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