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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a question for your Maryland barred attorney, not the internet. [/quote] +1. The Au pair arrangement wasn’t set up for your situation. So you will have to work with your attorney and your ex husbands attorney on how to structure childcare payments. If I were your ex, I’d require you to divide out the Au pair’s care and expenses into categories: (1) her hourly wage while watching the child while you work; (2) her wages for watching the child while you are not working (out with friends, shopping, etc; and (3) the associated costs with having an Au pair (phone bill, grocery bill, gifts for the Au pair, vacations with the Au pair, car and gas for the Au pair, your mortgage and utilities). If I was your ex, I’d only agree to cover bucket 1. This is probably cheaper than a nanny, so your ex will probably be thrilled. [/quote] They have 50-50 and its her child care only.[/quote]
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