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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have a nanny and au pair?  Do you spend any time with your child?[/quote]

OP here - I work from home and had a newborn so the au pair (and now nanny) helped only with the siblings. There was overlap with her and the nanny so that it would be a smooth transition for everyone especially the kids. The nanny was part time during the overlap and took over full time when AP left. I don't actually spend any time without my children, although that'd be a nice change!

But, more to the point, you really shouldn't be participating in a group discussion if you can't contribute productively without needlessly projecting your own biases and fears onto other people in the conversation.[/quote]

Sorry, did I miss a vote where you were appointed board monitor? Where do you get off lecturing people about whether they should or “shouldn’t be participating?” Delusions of grandeur.   :roll: [/quote]

I’m with the OP on this one. If you don’t have anything to add to this conversation except some basic bitch comment about how a mom doesn’t spend enough time with her children - where you don’t know this woman, don’t know her kids, don’t know her life… yeah sit down. Nobody wants to hear your hot take. [/quote]

agree!
I can't tell if it's a troll AP or just some woman who is that unhappy with her life [/quote]

It's a woman who is unhappy with her life and takes it out on women she believes have better lives. "Au pair" sounds fancy so this forum has attracted assorted haters that harrass working women in every third thread or so-- been this way for more than a decade now. [/quote]

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