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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you’re a woman, yes? Does your husband ever clean up after a meal? If not, I can see how your AP might think that cleanup is a task that you’ve agreed is yours. I wouldn’t want to help out, either, if my host father just peaced out after every meal and the womenfolk were expected to clean. I’d be like, that’s your weird, regressive dynamic, not mine.[/quote] What ever the dynamic is between the parents is between them but as an AuPair, you are there for a job. Your host family is not the hired help, you are. If host mom cooks, you be decent and help clean up. Or, make your own meals.[/quote] An AP is definitely NOT “hired help.” They’re supposed to do an equal part of household chores. Not everything the cleaning team doesn’t do. Not split with just mom. Equal.[/quote]
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