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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My employers seemed lovely and sane during the interview process.  Shortly after starting work, the mother had a huge fight with her mother and cut her off for awhile.  Then she had a fight with her husband regarding his mother and told me she was divorcing him.  She had near constant fights with her MIL always wishing death upon her MIL.  And fired an employee at her work for being short with her and questioning her.

I should have seen it coming... after three years, she turned on me in the course of a few days and I was fired and cut out completely.

Classic idealization then devaluation.  I should have listened to my gut at the first fight with her own mother.  I knew then she wasn’t stable.  But honestly, I was too lazy and too tired to start the interview process at that point.  [/quote]

When people show you who they are - believe them.  The biggest mistake is thinking that person would never do the same to you.

I learned this the hard way too but with a friend.  [/quote]

+2. When you witness someone treating another badly or unfairly, KNOW that this is how they will treat you one day.

-another who learned this lesson the hard way.  [/quote]

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