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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our ap has been here @1 month and it’s not been a great start. Early on she mentioned that her parents may come to visit over Christmas. I said ok, [b]we will likely be traveling to see family then but she doesn’t have to come[/b]. I asked her to confirm as soon as she could because I need to buy plane tickets. I finally asked her again today and she said yes, they are coming but she isn’t sure of the dates, and they asked if they can stay at our home while they are here. We will be away Dec 23-Jan 3 or so, and I think they’ll be here during some but not all of that time. Do I count this as her vacation? Is it weird for our ap to not be with her host family for the holidays?[/quote] If this is how the conversation happened, you shouldn't count it against her vacation. You're being vindictive. Say no to them staying at your house if you want, but don't count it against her vacation.[/quote]
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