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[quote=Anonymous]Of course I want and expect the childcare. For me, I also want them to like our family, enjoy their year and think of the experience as an exchange. You should read your posts from the perspective of a parent to one of these girls - would you want your daughter to spend a year with a HM who has so much hostility bottled that appears directed at this newly arrived AP? Its not whether you offer $20 or $200, its about the attitude of wanting to make it work and make it a warm relationship vs. having the attitude of not paying a dime more than required (or at least making it sound like you feel that way in your posts). Also, while I have paid extras when I think it makes sense, I also use the full 45 hours and pay the exact stipend required. I'm not rich - I'm a working mom whose work-life balance relies on my AP, so I am looking to find low impact ways to make our relationship successful. [/quote]
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