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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]meh - I think the trend has peaked. There are more available but those of that have male APs are also learning that there are down sides....particularly the whole friends over/opposite sex issue. We do not allow female guests to spend the night, but boy do we sure have a lot that show up at 9pm and leave around 2am. Or stop by mid day for about 45 minutes then move along. If I took a black light into my AP's room I assume it would look like a crime scene from CSI show. They are good for sports and guy stuff, but you get ALL the guy stuff that comes along with it.[/quote] Has it? Then why is is still so hard to match? Makes no sense.[/quote] I have no idea what it is hard to match for you...we have solid male candidates changing arrival targets by 2 months. We connect and release them after first skype. Our 6 connections are full all the time. We live in close in DC suburb, .5 mile walk to metro; 4 metro stops to DC. 4 miles by car/bike. AP has own car; we have boys who play sports, AP goes on skiing and summer vacations in FL/CO. Standard pay, standard room w/ private bath. All our APs (male and female) are references for them to contact. Maybe your profile is jacked up or something. It is not that hard to connect or match.[/quote] Uh, I'm in the upper west side. I can assure you that we have APs willing to give their left arm to match with us. Doesn't change the fact that bropairs are very very desirable. The problem is many of them have full connections. I've had to resort to underhanded tactics and steal APs out from under people like yourself. Going on the FB groups, identifying one, interviewing off the site, and getting them to dump connections of existing matches and then matching once they are released. I'd call that a tight market. Have never once had to do that with a female AP.[/quote]
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