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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] My lesson learned. You'll never find it. Lower your expectations. If there was a person who was capable of everything you said, they'd have other better career opportunities. Jobs that paid more, gave more flexibility, more RESPECT from others. Nannies are usually nannies because their job options are something along the lines of .... taking care of babies, working at a call center, selling Avon to friends or whatever else they have these days, or target/Walmart. Of those options, those who have strong personalities (can't be told what to do) usually pick the nanny profession because there is no other grownup watching their back. You could write a sociology paper on this topic. Anyway... conclusion, you'll never find what you are looking for. The good news is that kids turn out great even if you don't have those things and can't find that nanny. So don't despair. Even the Elementary School Teacher... she could wax poetry about how much she likes working with kids one on one. Call me jaded after all these years but... if she became a fully qualified Elementary School Teacher.. which takes years of training, then it must've been hard to change the status quo, make a life changing decision to go into another career field. What could that be? There was something major to make her forgo all of that training and throw away all the investment of her years working as an Elementary School Teacher. Why did the nanny profession look so good to her at that point? She couldn't take the politics at the school? Couldn't stay organized? Couldn't handle the kids? It was something that she was not cut out for. I wish her the best and everyone deserves a fair wage but honestly, putting your expectations on anyone, even a former Elementary School Teacher seems unfair. [/quote] You are wrong, PP. I am a retired writer and preschool teacher who currently loves being a nanny. I did my "thing" and am now thrilled to be working one-on-one with these amazing little beings. I know I am a rarity - but I exist. I have a BA in education and a masters in liberal arts. OP can find a great nanny because she knows exactly what she wants - and is willing to pay for it. [/quote]
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