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[quote=Anonymous]MB here.

OP, your MB was completely out of line.  I am sure she is miserable, stressed, upset, worried, etc... but that is no excuse.

I hope that today you were met w/ an apology and a clarification (for everyone in the house) regarding who is in charge.

If you weren't met with that, and assuming you want to give them a chance and retain the job for the time being, perhaps say (or email) something like this:

"MB, I was very upset about what happened yesterday.  I will do whatever you want me to do when there are family staying at the house, but yesterday was impossible.  You told me to "relax and take a back seat, and only intervene if they asked for help".  So I did.  I get snapped at by Frieda when I offer help so tried to stay out of their way.  Then I get a call about Jack being in the neighbor's yard, all six adults have managed to lose one of the kids, and you tell me it's my fault because i'm supposed to be in charge.  I'm in an impossible situation and this is bad for everyone - first and foremost the kids.  If you want me to be in charge that's great - just make that clear to everyone else so they let me do my job.  If you want them to be in charge that's great also, but please don't blame me for their oversights.  Let me know how you'd like me to proceed for the rest of the week.  Thank you."

Good luck!![/quote]

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