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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]MB here.

Do you enjoy this job otherwise?  Do you have a good working relationship w/ your employers that you want to maintain?  How you choose to handle this should be based on your overall satisfaction with the job (IMO).   Also, how do you know about the video?

If it's a crummy job and you're planning on leaving then you can take whatever position/attitude you want.

If you saw the video through some transparent, innocent means that is also good.  (Versus coming across it by lurking/stalking somehow.)

If you like the job and want to maintain a good relationship, and if you legitimately/innocently saw the video, then you start with something like:  "Mary, can we talk about something?  Facebook showed me a video of me on my feed the other day - I guess because of some face recognition software or something.  So it was video from the nanny cam of the day when Buster took his first steps.  I have no problem with the nanny cams, but I do not want my image posted publicly by anyone other than me.  Could you please take it down, and edit me out of anything you want to put up in the future?  Thanks."[/quote]

No, no.  The relationship has been forever changed because the MB had no regard for OP.  THE MB deserves no benefit of the doubt.  What she did is despicable.[/quote]

That's a perfectly fine mindset and opinion - unless OP needs (and maybe even likes) her job.  Choosing to stake out the most outraged moral ground simply may not be a good idea for someone who needs a job.  [/quote]

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