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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Just for info...

She is Austrian and is currently au pairing in China and her flight back arrives just before the end of July. She has reliable WiFi/internet connectivity there. Is on/ posting WhatsApp/Instagram all the time. Doesn't seem to be impacting her. She seems to navigate tech alright, posting live streams and videos.

Originally when we were first talking, I told her I needed her to come as soon as possible. When we matched and I asked her the earliest date, she agreed on the 15th.

Afterwards, she told me that she wanted to move the date because she didn't think that she could get her visa in time (which I verified with the agency was not true),  This is understandable, but afterwards, I immediately contacted the agency with this problem and gave me a solution (she must book the visa appt by a certain date). I reached out to tell her this, but since then she has not tried to get an appointment that would allow her to make the Aug 15 date. I am assuming she wants to come later and by ignoring the problem, it will solve itself, in her eyes.

I also asked her to move her flight home date but she would not.

It has only been three weeks since we matched. Only conversations we have had, are about the visa and date issue and are initiated by me. She doesn't seem busy as her host child there is in school during the day so she has free time to make arrangements (despite the time difference, it's only 6 hrs ahead of her home country).

I really don't have it in me to reach out with emails or texts proactively.

Thanks again for your feedback and opinions.
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