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[quote=Anonymous]This is unacceptable. You are the parents and you are the employers. You and the nanny should be working together to set rules, expectations, schedules, etc... You should not be this passive, nor should you be using this kind of victim mindset. Set up a system to document the day (logs can be great). Have the nanny show you how she does your daughter's hair. Tell your nanny how you want the toys arranged or what you consider sensible attire. Decide if you like the nanny's standards and enforce them yourself if you do - or ask the nanny to pull back if you think she's going too far. You are the boss here. Literally. You need to take charge of your employee and your children. And you will often "look like a jerk" to your kids. That's a core part of the job if you're doing it right.[/quote]
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