Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Au Pair Discussion
Reply to "Rematch when AP endangered my child"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - It sounds like this girl made a mistake and one she is not likely to make again. Have you never made a mistake? This is a training issue as much as an issue for her. Frankly if you are not willing to use this as a lesson for her and show her some sympathy I do not think you should be a host mom. You whole tone on this issue is just incredibly unforgiving and judgmental. People make mistakes and au pairs are people - people getting used to a new culture and living with a strange family. If you are this tense I am sure the au pair picked up on it and felt stressed - when we are stressed we are more likely to make mistakes.... Just a thought....[/quote] I agree with this. This girl has never been a mom. This girl might come from a country where it's not that huge of a deal to drive without a car seat. Not trying to excuse the behavior, but I too find the reaction extreme.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
