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[quote=Anonymous]"Please don't tell her how inconvenient this is for you. Most likely, she knows and feels bad about it. My dad just died and I took two days off to get my mind straight and my boss was really understanding. If they would have told me how inconvenient it was for them, I don't think I could have handled that. A family death is already stressful enough. Even if she wasn't close to her moms husband, seeing her mom in pain can't be much better." 2 days is very different from 10 days. What you took is reasonable. Even on the short end of reasonable I would say and of course it would have been wrong to guilt you about it. Op's nanny is taking 10 days and it was not even for a direct family member. Yes I think it is appropriate to make sure she understands OP is doing it because she values her nanny but that it is not easy given that this is way above and beyond typical bereavement time off. [/quote]
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