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[quote=Anonymous]OP ignore the nasty PP please. I understand wanting to leave details out in your OP but it does make more sense when you fill in the details. Unfortunately it's a difficult situation though. I'd be very careful about what you say to 2 day/week MB about 3 day/week MB. Even if they aren't close friends you don't want to ever bad mouth one to the other. I think the only appropriate thing to say to 2 day/week MB is to ask if they have discussed the plans/schedule now that 3 day MB has a second child. That's all I think you can say. I will say that given the additional information now I don't think it's as likely 3 day MB plan to let you go BUT if she doesn't want to give you the increase you are asking for she might. I'm not saying you don't deserve the increase you are asking for and even that you shouldn't ask but just be prepared, from the way you have described this MB she may be the type who would rather look for someone else instead. So with that said, I think you should continue to look for other job options just so you are prepared. Unfortunately you really can't say anything negative to 2 day MB and if 3 day MB does choose to let you go I think you may need to accept you will have to move on from 2 day family as well.[/quote]
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