Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Employer Issues
Reply to "Nanny too close?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]I'm a nanny and I have slipped a couple times and called my charge "my boy" or "my baby". And I do buy him books occasionally and bring him gifts when I come back from a trip but I have never given him anything without showing it to my MB first and asking her if it's okay for me to give it to him. I do love the little guy. That said, I would NEVER do anything my MB asked me not to do. I do as I am asked regardless of whether or not I agree with it (I usually give my opinion once but then never mention it again). My MB occasionally sends me short phone videos of the boy on weekends if he did something funny or for the first time but I have never called to see how he was doing or asked for a video! It is impossible not to love the children in your care. I would sit down with your nanny and tell her exactly how you feel and demand that she follow your instructions to the letter. Obviously, never let her take care of your child for free (that would further blur the lines). [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics