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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you so much, everyone, for your well thought out responses. It is a relief to know I'm not overreacting!

And to the last poster - your suggestion is a good one. I am looking into PT preschools for my daughter for the fall, and would potentially seek a different part time nanny if it were just my daughter. However, I'm expecting our second child in August. Since she did such a great job with infant care, I would LIKE to fix things with her instead of starting all over. I'm just not sure if we'll be able to radically shift the dynamic. I don't want to start down this same path with #2!!

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I am a nanny and I agree that she needs to be let go. The dynamic is not going to change and she is too much involved to the point that it is creepy. I love my charges and post occasional photos of them on FB and tag the parents but never with those sentiments. Honestly I would worry that she could take off with the child. She is NOT a professional nanny and is way too attached. She thinks of herself as a third parents.
I say start over, clearly outline what you want and need. [/quote]

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