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[quote=Anonymous]Mom said they have a strong preference in her words for "outward ooey gooey lovey approach". All if not most of my references describe me as loving but firm. I called one of my references (current employer) for advice about the situation and she said mom spent about 20 mins asking questions related to that. Prior to the trial mom emailed me and wanted to confirm my interest in the position because she was going to stop looking for other candidates. I suspect I wasn't hired based in part on what my references had to say about me (although glowing they won't lie and say I'm the kissy face type) and my trial day with the mother where I wasn't openly affectionate to a child I had just met. I'm a little perturb about not being offered the job based on how well I love children because I really really love the children I've cared for in the past. I don't open mouth kiss children and slobber all over them in the presence of what is the most important person in their lives but I do know that they feel loved by me. Just wasn't the right fit. Imagine how difficult the next nanny will have it based on the sociopath they will be firing.[/quote]
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