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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP-you are fishing for people to agree with you here and, obviously, most of us don't. 
There are many reasons she could have forgotten (least of all, she is a human being who occasionally lets things slip her mind) and you are overlooking them all in search for some much more sinister meaning. If you are taking this misunderstanding so personally, you have much bigger problems than a forgotten birthday. Reflect a little, figure out what the real issue is and drop the forgotten birthday. No good will come of bringing it up.  [/quote]

[b]I think what people are missing is that this is not an isolated incident[/b]. By itself, yes it is not a big deal at all and OP is overreacting. But based on what OP said about the nanny favoring the older DC and not treating the younger one equally paints a whole different story.

OP, sometimes you have to go with your gut feeling.  If it is telling you that the nanny isn't treating both children equally then you need to have a conversation with her.  Don't mention the birthday thing because that may look petty even though I understand while it is a small thing, many small things can add up to a big thing.[/quote]

Hence the reason I said there are clearly other issues here. OP needs to address those issues with her nanny and not make it seem like is has anything to do with the birthday incident. It is so petty that any valid points would be lost in the ensuing conversation. [/quote]

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