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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd love it if a playdate came over every day.  Then I could get some down time in my 14hr day during the baby's afternoon nap!!  Otherwise I have to entertain the 7 year old the whole time when I need to prep dinner and just have a minute to myself to recharge.  When she has a playdate they go play dolls in her room and I can have a break!![/quote]

I really wouldn't mind it if it were not every afternoon until MB and DB come home and then he's gone.  He is a good kid, and yes...for the most part it keeps the older boy busy.  School just let out, so I'm sure he will be here all day.  That is my main concern, I like taking the children out and do not wish to take a fourth child, but I feel conflicted about telling him he must go home.  It's not my duty.  He sometimes eats dinner, but again...no big deal that he stays because it's not like I pay for the food, and making extra isn't really a hassle.  It's just like I've gotten an extra kid added, and NO I do not expect extra pay unless it becomes 24/7.  [/quote]

You should totally let the friend know if you have plans for your dc and friend is not invited.  Just politely tell dc his friend needs to go home until you guys get back or whatever. When school gets out and if he is over everyday all day, I would address it with mb and see if she minds or if she brings up compensating you more.  If she doesn't I wouldn't push it because she will likely give you the argument Me and other nannies have given you. If you are starting to feel taken advantage of I would start thinking about other options. [/quote]

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