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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't get why this is a micromange-y request.  [b]How is it different from a Catherine wanting to be Cate instead of Cathy or a Deborah preferring not to be called Debbie?  Why can't parents advocate for what their children are called? [/b] We called our DC Berry in utero - I definitely don't want that nickname sticking to him generally and I'm not sure what is unreasonable about that!  This isn't a nickname everyone uses - just the parents. The nanny has probably just picked it up because she hears the parents use it and assumes that it is what they prefer the baby be called, but if they stop using it in front of her and explain they would rather she and everyone else uses the child's name, I am just not sure what the big deal is.[/quote]

They absolutely can! But if you call your Catherine by Cate, you should anticipate that others will as well. If you continue to refer to your baby as Berry, you should assume that other loving caregivers and family members might also adopt that nickname. You get to set the tone for what you want your child to be called, but if my parents had called me Suzy but demanded my nanny call me Susan, that would have been weird. [/quote]

My nickname became so common that I was enrolled in school with it. The only time my real name ever got used was when I went to the doctor or when my parents were REALLY angry with me. If they didn't want other people but themselves (and maybe my sister) to call me that nickname, then they wouldn't have used it all the time around others.[/quote]

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