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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Anonymous wrote:
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I don't know about you, but what would make me feel better is if your daycare director had enough common sense NOT TO HIRE an illiterate, hygiene-challenged, cold caregiver IN THE FIRST PLACE.

You, my friend, earn top honors today, for precisely illustrating your problem so effectively. Your continued inability to identify and hire stable substitute childcare, due to your continued utter lack of knowledge, experience, understanding, or concern, is NOT an acceptable excuse for you to rob your young child the lifelong benefits of having consistant, capable, trained, and most of all, LOVING care.

Too many unstable and inept caregivers during very early childhood, most definately can, and often do, result in longterm damage.

I am not your friend and the only thing I demonstrated today - without becoming sarcastic, rude or dismissive - is that I do not agree with you. The fact is that you have no idea about the kind of childcare my young child does; you never will. Fact is, you don't even know that I have a young child.

There is a world of gray between "too many unstable and inept caregivers" and clinging to a caregiver who no longer meets the needs of the family in the name of stability.

Why do you hyphenate "precisely-illustrating"?

The fact is that you don't need to agree with anyone and you can maintain any opinion you want with regard to caregiver stability, or lack thereof. Another fact is that you can hire as many caregivers for your child as you find suitable to fit your fancy. In fact, you many get yourself a new one every 60 days if you wish. One would think that should meet your "changing needs".

Or one may study a little early childhood developement and "attatchment", and see what surprises one may encounter.

It may bring some understanding to your child's critical requirements for building a strong foundation for his or her, entire future. [/quote]

Wow, PP, you are seriously unhinged on this topic. Btw, I'm not the PP you are quoting. I'm the PP who thinks your real issue is job security for nannies.

I don't particularly care about your opinions. You are entitled to them, no matter how foolish they may be.

But I have to consider other parents who may not recognize your nonsense. You have been given sources, in several threads, that show that there is no support for your position that changing nannies leads to attachment disorders. Because they don't. In fact, the literature is consistent that attachment disorders have nothing to do with daycare or nannies. You are flat out wrong.

Children will have many important people in their lives. Daycare workers, nannies, teachers, family and friends. The most important figures will always be their parents, their true primary caregivers.

You can continue to argue with the several patient people who have told you how wrong you are, but doing so will never make you right.[/quote]

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