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[quote=Anonymous]I would ask about what emotional support they have from their family, how they expect to make friends, etc. It can be emotionally draining when your Au pair expects you and your spouse to fulfill all of her emotional needs. I would also ask about what she expects to do after Au pairing. She may not know, and that okay. But I know a lot of families prefer to have an AP who has some direction (going to grad school back home, returning to her family, etc). My experience may be unique so take it with a grain of salt, but my last AP announced 6 months in that she wanted us to sponsor her for US college and live with us for 4 years following the end of the program. I was not game (I was already counting down when she’d leave!) and it created a lot of resentment for her. She basically said I was ruining her chance at a good life. It wasn’t what I thought I was signing up for. Ugh. [/quote]
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