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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe good to perhaps gage a few things: Have you communicated this before with the nanny from the beginning? is this happening at every meal? Are you around during your toddlers lunch (which could be contributing to the 'drama" or maybe her having a hard time understanding Mom going in & out?)? Is your nanny having her eat in her diaper for certain meals (eg messy foods like spaghetti sauce, berries etc) or ALL meals? Whats specifically are you not okay with when it comes to toddler eating in her diaper? is it a deal breaker? Does nanny dress toddler back up after or just lets her run around in her diaper? Is eating in her diaper working better for toddler or making her behavior worse or making her uncomfortable etc? Have you asked nanny to get her views or line of thought behind having toddler eat in her diaper? Does your toddler also behave the same way when having meals with you and could it be that nanny is trying to find ways to best help your toddler through meals? Sounds like a lot of questions but since theres no other info, its hard to give feed back. But its helpful for you to think about answers to these questions so you figure out whether its a huge huge issue or something you can work with or get your nanny's perspective about. I guess i am also curious to know how toddler eating in her diaper means she's not managing the child's meal time drama? If its a couple of messy meals, eating in her diaper especially if you dont have bibs or clean up is a bit more difficult adding in other factors (eg pressed for time, cranky toddler, busy kitchen, limited cleaning supplies or limitations on when to use them, parents not happy with stained clothes etc), that would make sense. But then at the same time it maybe good to first understand why your nanny is seemingly having toddler eat all meals in her diaper in case theres a good reason why. [/quote]
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