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[quote=Anonymous]Transition SUCKS. I hated it. I totally get it. Transitioning to a new aupair each year is horrible too and emotional. We were lucky we liked a few alot who stayed 2 years with us at a time. My daughter cried herself to sleep for days after our last aupair left after 2 years. Childcare transitions are really tough. Your intended AP will find another family that is ready for that transition. Give it a month or two to see if your daycare is going to work financially and logistically for your family and then make that decision. Breakups are hard, but if you allow her to match, travel come here excited and then realize it's a breakup situation, that will be so much worse. And I read on a facebook group a line that really made sense to me, "don't wind yourself and your family up into knots over someone else's american dream." You just can't. Your family comes first and she will be able to match and be an aupair if it's meant to be. [/quote]
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