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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My friend told me her five year old son is still grieving the separation of his long term nanny. She said she didn’t realize how attached he was to her. She thought not talking about it would make him forget about her, and is now trying out play therapy.[/quote] +1. DH had a nanny from zero to three when she suddenly died. His parents told him that his nanny had to go away but loved him and then stopped talking about her. Although he’s always been especially close to his mother, the nanny just vanishing one day rocked his world and he had issues as an adolescent with trust and abandonment. Later, as an adult, he had a very smart therapist who listened to him and one day asked, “who loved you and left you as a child?” He was flabbergasted as he only vaguely remembers his nanny. The therapist explained that it was early imprinting and what he carried with him was that someone he depended on disappeared. [/quote]
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