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[quote=Anonymous]My nanny is in her early 30s and lives with her fiance who is currently not working (he's a photographer, so there's no work right now).  We (nanny and I) get along well and chat most days and I think she's happy with us / likes us but she's also professional enough I don't think I'd know if she was fine with the job but didn't like dh and me as people that much.

We're all isolating right now (she's not seeing anyone other than us, and same for us and her, and her fiance isn't interacting with anyone besides nanny) and we've chatted about how we're all bored of the monotony of it all.

I've thought about invited her and her fiance over for dinner/games on Saturday night after the kids are in bed since I like both of them a lot and we're the only people we can all hang out with.  However I worry that she'd feel like she couldn't say no even if she didn't want to come over b/c there's no excuse of other plans.

So should I invite her and make it clear that its totally fine to say no, or keep this clearly a professional relationship and not try to have a friends relaitonship also.[/quote]

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