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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a potential employer, one bad reference out of four likely would not sway me too much. As a Nanny, I would explain to a potential employer that things didn’t end well w/a certain family & that you decided not to include them as your reference. Tell them briefly about the situation, making it general + very brief. Important! ->> Do not speak badly of your ex-bosses at all. Just say it was not a good match in the end. A PP suggested you claim the bad family is not available to speak to them, but I wouldn’t encourage you to do this at all. It sounds a little shady to me. As if you are intentionally hiding something and/or lying. [/quote] +1. I agree - good advice. [/quote]
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