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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Happy for you, ap. Unfortunately we are having the opposite experience with our new ap, who barely talks. We suffered through it before with our first, but now after a couple of good to great aps I won’t do it again. How can we address it or initiate rematch if it isn’t about her childcare or safety but just a bad personality match?[/quote] OP here---my advice is that for it to be a great year, the AP needs to deliver on the childcare and the personality/relationship with the HPs. You can certainly talk to your LCC (if the LCC is helpful) and let them know that your AP barely talks. How long has the AP been with you? If it's more than 2-3 weeks, it's a problem. We endured an AP who would not sit with us at dinnertime, and would take her food and go to the dining room table (while we all ate at the kitchen table), because she was fine in terms of childcare. Never again[/quote]
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