Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Au Pair Discussion
Reply to "Our AP's new HM wants to talk - they've already matched"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Could be a first time HM that didn't realize it was possible or important to talk to previous HFs. Then joined some sort of group (like this one!) and decided better late than never. Please tell her the truth! [b]She could always break the match.[/b][/quote] This. Or if she knows to watch out for the late pick ups, she'll know to lay down the law the first time it happens and unequivocally tell AP it's unacceptable. We threaten AP with paying any school late pick up fees if AP is late without extenuating circumstances (car accident). We also say speeding because you're late is NOT ok (have a car tracker that tells us this info--AP went 60 in a 45mph non-highway zone with crosswalks when she was 15 minutes late recently). Have we ever had to enforce this (late fees)? No. Does it impress upon the AP that it's their responsibility not to be late? Yes, to the point our APs leave somewhat ridiculously early and sit in the car for 10-15 minutes on their phone waiting in the carpool line (which I roll my eyes at, but prefer than 15 minutes late).[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics