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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, I am not the OP of the other thread. Some similarities but not the same person. I stated above that she is moving to be closer to family - which is her brothers and sisters - who live back in her home country. Her children are staying in the US, so I think it's a little strange she is leaving them. I do think there is a change she is no longer happy, but if that is the case I wish she had been honest. Since my older child has been in school for the past 3 years (although it wasn't full day) she had a ton of free time without much to do. Now that there is a baby in the picture and I have been having her watch the baby while I hang with the older one this summer, I think she may not love going back to being "on" 24/7. At the end of the day I think this change could be a good thing, it's just the worst timing possible. What I am trying to figure out is whether it's time to cut ties now and let it go, or try to make things a bit easier by asking her to stay longer.[/quote] Your child will not simply “cut ties”. Let go of your anger, OP, and make this easy and happy for your child. You have to let go of your hard feelings about this and choose the best path for your child and for yourself. [/quote]
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