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[quote=Anonymous]We also screen for candidates who have lived alone so I completely understand.  But after a few years at this, I'm convinced that a great match is a crapshoot since you can't test chemistry over Facetime or email.  We screened and screened for our first AP and thought she was the perfect match; she ended up being a disaster.  We rushed into our second match and she was fantastic.  On paper, both had the same things we screen for.

So, stick to your gut about what you think works for you.  Then, think about how you come across to them.  You don't want it to come across as an easy gig where they'll be partying all the time, but you want them to think you're welcoming and really want them to be your AP.  Emphasize the downsides and the perks in the same email.  And since you're looking for someone who is independent, make that an upside, not a downside ("We're so impressed that you've worked xxx -- we're looking for someone who can take those skills and help our household improve in that area".
Good luck!

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