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[quote=Anonymous]Our 19 yr old au pair will have her boyfriend visiting for a week and is asking where he can sleep (in her room or elsewhere). Boyfriend, per her report, thinks it’s ridicule couldn’t share a bed with her while visiting.

We have tween and young teen kids in our home that are well aware of what may be happening behind closed doors. I am inclined to tell the au pair that her boyfriend is welcome to the couch or the other guest bedroom, but cannot share her room (and its single bed). I’m thinking ahead to the questions I’ll get from my kids and the precedent I’d be setting for my very observant kids - sleepover with significant other in your room is a-okay.

Am I overthinking this? What’s reasonable? The au pair and her boyfriend will have an empty house to enjoy from 7:30am-3pm every day, so I’m not concerned they’ll miss out on private time - there is a LOT that can be accomplished during those hours, with NO tween/teens around to wonder.

Opinions? Your past experiences and what you’ve learned? Thanks![/quote]

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