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[quote=Anonymous]Do you like her otherwise, regardless of the drinking?  If so, give her another chance. If not, this is definitely a good gripe for you to have to explore rematch.

We had an AP a few years ago who was 19 and from Mexico. Exact situation. We came home from date night, kids were asleep, and she was sitting there with her friends, wearing her "going out clothes" waiting for us to get back. She was drinking a bottle of our Bailey's in our expensive wine glasses.  I was not pleased. We had a discussion with her that even though she was legal to drink her her country, she was not legal to drink (and serve alcohol to others) in ours. 3 months later we rematched, and this was one of the things we thought of when it happened.  I would have felt better if she just had one of her older AP friends buy her her own stuff. All of it made us very uncomfortable. But again, it all depends on the relationship you have and whether she's worth it to overlook the issue. Either way, you should talk with her and also let the advisor know.[/quote]

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