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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like they are not a good fit for a share.  How does the other family feel about it?  Is it impacting the other child?  I might talk to the ofher family privately about finding a new share partner if you think they’d be open to it.  [/quote]

I concur completely w/this.
This family just isn’t compatible w/doing a share & your best bet here would be to seek out a new share family.

The Mother mentioned sounds very wishy washy + from what you wrote, she appears to be too set in her ways to change. :([/quote]

They're friends  :cry:  :cry:  :cry:

The other mom is neutral. She agrees with me (pretty much all the time) but she's like "that's on them if they want to put up with the behavior and sleeping issues." [b]I also think besides a little attitude here and there, the other child is pretty good for 2.5- manners, super sweet, smart, potty trained etc.[/b] I am really stuck between a rock and a hard place. Don't get me wrong I love both children and I have been with them since they were infants but I don't want to cause any issues between friends by ending my contract with the ONE family- has anyone every done that? I know there is no other option-- stick it out or leave. I'm in a tough spot.

I really work with the child when he's with me but I am thinking if I step back a little and follow the parents lead, maybe they will get fed up? I don't know. It's not in my nature to just let a child do whatever he or she wants but I am out of options and tired of talking. I do have a great relationship with everyone which makes it harder but what's a girl to do?!

Thank you guys for your feedback. [/quote]

I forgot to finish my sentence  :)  The mom doesn't complain or bring anything up because her kid is doing well and her and I have a great relationship. However, I think if I really start complaining she would try to put her 2 cents in to rectify the situation because she already expressed, privately, that she wants me around for a very long time[/quote]

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