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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My charge tells me that her parents fight and scream at each other all the time.  She recently told me that her Dad moved out for a week just to stop the fighting.  This week she has been telling me that her favorite doll (her security item) has been hitting and pushing her.

As a nanny, how do I best handle this?  I reassure her that her Mom and Dad love her and that people who love each other argue.  I tell her that she is safe.

My employers are extremely private people and I would never tell them what their child is saying to me.  I am a bit out of my league however in knowing how to handle the emotions of my charge.

I am part time and only pick her up after school now but I have been with her since she was born.

Thank you so any advice.  [/quote]

MB here. I am also a very private person but I would never expect my nanny to stay silent when it came to concern for my child. If you truly cannot discuss this with your employer, you should find another job.  [/quote]

Thank you.  I tried talking to my employer about this before and she was cold to me for two weeks and my charge told me she "got in trouble" for telling me.  I have no intention of quitting.  [/quote]

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