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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your charge was s having major problems if her security is “hurting” her.  Bite the bullet, be the adult she needs and tell both parents in a sit down meeting.  You don’t need to tell them what to do, but you do need to tell them what is happening with their daughter.  They can’t make decisions without information.[/quote]

I tried that once -- my charge told me she got in trouble for telling me and I got frozen out for two weeks.  I am not doing it again regardless of your pathetic name calling.  I want to know what to say to help my charge. [/quote]

YOU can’t do anything.  Her parents are responsible for this situation and they have to handle it, perhaps with a counselor.  I’ve been that child, and I’ve worked with several children dealing with parents arguing, separating, and sometimes divorcing.  YOU aren’t equipped to handle this, nor is it your role to handle it.  My point was that your role IS to notify the parents about issues, especially something as serious as a child telling you that their security item is hurting them!

I’m sorry, but you need to tell the parents.  Do you have any contact with the school?  If you do, and you trust that the teacher and counselor wouldn’t notify the parent that it came from you, let them know that she needs some time to talk with the counselor, and let them take it to the parents.[/quote]

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