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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I stopped being this little guy's nanny about a month ago.  I've seen him once since then and stayed for four hours at the mother's request.  Today I am going over and don't know how long to stay.  He is with his new nanny today.  I will probably visit every three weeks in the future, too.  How long should I stay?

Thanks.  [/quote]

Leave it!  This is not enough time for the new nanny to bond.  You are no longer his nanny and you ate doing damage to the new nanny.  If you must visit make it for no longer than an hour every three MONTHS![/quote]

I am an MB and I disagree completely.  You nannies profess to love your charges but then can't be bothered visiting once every three weeks for a few hours?  Makes no sense.  Our former nanny still sees my son - without pay - and I have so much respect for her for it and respect for her relationship with my son.  The new nanny loves it when former nanny comes around as she gets to go do other things (same as when when my mother visits).  Maybe our new nanny is just secure in her role as nanny and a lot of you aren't.

TO OP - 2 hours for a visit is great - like a play date!  [/quote]

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