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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]On that note, my bosses are away and I am taking care of 3 kids: 14, 11 & 8. The 14 is very innapropriate and full of sexual innuendos even tho I had specifically set a boundary, he crosses it all the time. Not physically in any way, but like at dinner table he starts talking about sex and stuff like that in front of the 8yo! He makes comments that "so and so effed so and so" and it is always out of the blue. He'll say outrageous things laughing like an idiot. He makes innapropriate jokes etc etc. 
anyway I am writing an email about a very specific exchange he started at the table talking about "squirting" (It's horrific). I am dwelling on if I add about the time he was having a banana and he made the motion and the sounds of sucking the banana. Did he know what he was doing? He must have. Would tbat be too much? [/quote]

I think that he is doing it because he knows it bothers you. He has likely just started learning about this stuff at school, and this feels really grown-up and transgressive. He's probably trying things out with you to take back stories to his friends.

That said, it's waaaaaayyyy beyond something you should have to manage. Absolutely tell the parents. I would hope that they would allow you to impose some consequences now, and would plan to address it when they return.

It shows an incredible lack of respect. I don't know if this is unusual for this family. If it is, at least give them the chance to deal with it. If it is not, I'm not sure it's a work situation I would be willing to continue with. A child should know how to be polite and respectful around anyone, particularly a grown up.[/quote]

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